The Magic Wand for Eating Right

 

“I want to eat right, but I want it to happen like magic.”

OK, maybe the request isn’t spelled in such blatant terms, but the message is there. Clients arrive in my office with the apparent hope that I will have the magic wand to turn their belly fat, their fatigue, their achy joints and all their troubles into happy endings.

In a sense I do, though, like Cinderella’s fairy godmother, I’ll make her work for it. Have her gather all the necessary pieces so that I can help her turn them into what she wants.

Being the diverse mosaic of humans that we are, there’s obviously no one-size-fits-all solution to the quandary of eating right. The map for your healing journey will be different from anyone else’s.

And yet, there is a common ground to that human-ness, to the nourishment it takes to feed a vibrant woman. So, that the answer to that question of “How do I eat better?” really is as simple as the wave of a magic wand. It’s a guideline that goes like this:

Reduce any food that causes you trouble and increase those that nourish you.

Bibbity-bobbity-boo!

Very general, yes. Think of it as a forest path with several possible routes to get you to that garden of health you long for.

 

Explore the possible paths by listening to your body.

Eat less of anything you know you are, or to which you even suspect you are, sensitive. This could mean a full-on allergy (walnuts give you hives), an intolerance (lactose gives you cramps), or just some random item that makes you feel “wrong” (raw cabbage makes your eyes itch, grapes make you sleepy, oats turn you into a screaming banshee).

Logical or not, common or not, if you react to it in an adverse way, your body is saying “No” …at least for now.

Periodically avoid the items that are generally hard to digest or make your body work harder in other ways. These include such items as dairy, gluten, red meat, sugar, alcohol, poor quality fats, chemical additives. You don’t necessarily need to give these up permanently (ok maybe the additives and the poor fats), but give yourself a periodic break.

Whether you notice that they cause distress or not, they do add to your stress load.

Holistic nutritionist Jessica Sherman sees our capacity to deal with stress like a glass: the more you add to it, the more likely things will spill over into an inability to function or disease or irritability or weight gain or any of the myriad reactions we experience when our energy is drained under stress.

Staying away from foods that cause you stress, physical or otherwise, will allow you to keep enough room in that glass for the stuff you can’t avoid (the jerk at the office) or for when the rug gets pulled out from under you (your husband says it’s over) and you need the reserve.

Eat more nutrient dense food. Food that gives you more nutritious bang for your caloric buck.

Whole food. (Not sure what that means, or think you do? Read more here.)

Here’s a fairy godmother trick for you to ensure nutrient density.  Think of it as the Magic Looking Glass through which you can consider everything you eat.

magic of eating right

Make sure every meal and every snack contains some amount of protein, fat and fibre. Bonus points if you include something green.

Here’s why:

Protein: Needed to make all the functional molecules in your body and to maintain all of your structure. It’s easier to access when consumed in small amounts with other foods through the day. Get details on how much protein you need daily and food sources here. Get the deep story on why we need protein here.

Fat: Slows your digestion to help level out blood sugar; needed for your hormone balance, efficient metabolism and to help you absorb minerals and fat-soluble vitamins. Get the skinny on fat here.

Fibre: Will help you feel satisfied (and stay that way longer); feeds the friendly flora in your gut; gives your digestive tract a good workout and grabs all the garbage for removal. Here’s the real reason you need fibre AND this one outlines the benefits of whole carbohydrates (where you find fibre).

Green (plant) food contains magnesium. Of the 500+ jobs that magnesium does in your body, it is key to your hormone balance (in men that magic mineral is zinc); it helps your body release energy from food; it gets depleted under stress and yet it helps your body recover from the effects of stress.

Ex. Apple with nut butter (pumpkin seed butter)
Eggs with sweet potato and leafy greens
Chicken & vegetables (at least one green)
Rice cakes (or other whole grain/seed cracker) & black bean dip, drizzle with olive oil (add a pinch of arugula or cilantro)

Red beans & brown rice with avocado (really yummy with steamed broccoli)

What about all the other vitamins and minerals?

I’m glad you asked.

When you choose nutrient dense food, whole food that is naturally nutrient dense, you are choosing food that already contains the vitamins and minerals needed to digest, assimilate and metabolise that food.

And here’s my little secret: when you feed your body such nourishing food on a regular basis, then, having felt the difference, your body will start to crave those very things!

Like in the fairy tales, this magic mirror reflects something more than the beauty of your meals. It is showing you a way that you can up your self-care. It shows you one of the ways that you express self-love.

How’s that for a magic wand?

 

Think about the last 3 meals you ate through that filter, and let us know how they fared. Any improvements may be one small step away and sharing these tweaks opens the possibilities for others.

 

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What is Whole Food?

You know that you’re supposed to eat whole food, but there’s a bit of confusion out there around what it exactly. Do you know why it’s so important?

When I ask my clients about it they say, “Sure, I eat whole wheat pasta,…I eat organic,…I shop at Whole Foods.”

While whole food my be organic, organic food isn’t necessarily whole.

Shopping at Whole Foods means that you are more likely to find items that are locally or sustainably grown, that are fair trade and made from healthier ingredients, however, this is only part of the whole picture.

Whole food is as close as possible to its natural state when you eat it.

  • Nothing (or very little) taken away – you might still need to peel or hull or skin/scale certain foods.
  • Nothing (or very little) added to it, not counting the lovely flavours we add to enhance a dish, preferably whole in themselves.
  • Not altered (or very little). You might need to cook (meat), ferment (soy) or add minerals (corn) to make certain foods digestible or to access the nutrients. You might need to dry, salt or ferment it to preserve it through the winter.

Using that definition, we can look at what foods we commonly eat along a spectrum from whole to processed:

Wheat berries – stone-ground whole wheat flour products – unbleached flour products – white flour products

(Whole has nothing to do with gluten or lack thereof: Brown rice – white rice – brown rice flour products – white rice flour products)

Meat is tricky because we rarely eat the whole animal, maybe a fish or small poultry  – sticking to chicken breasts only is a partial food – processed meat products are made from parts as well and have lots added to them.

That said, you can eat the entirety of a larger animal over a season, especially when you make bone broth and eat the marrow and the organs.

Egg – egg yolk/white – dehydrated eggs

Fresh whole milk – pasteurized/homogenized whole milk – 2%/skim/cream – powdered milk

A no-brainer whole food choice would be fresh vegetables and fruit. Eat more of those, and you’re golden.

 

Whole food is what was traditionally called, well, food.

Whole food is the opposite of many of the food-like products we find in the middle aisles of our grocery stores: refined and processed items. That is, It’s lower in the stuff that Health Canada tell us to avoid: added sugar, excess sodium and poor quality fats.

Now, many modern food have been formulated to include missing nutrients.

In terms of straight nutritional value, whole food provides a better profile of nutrients.  It’s naturally higher in the all the nutrients we need: fibre, minerals & vitamins, protein, essential fatty acids.

Whole food contains all the nutrients you need to digest, assimilate and effectively metabolise the core ingredients. It’s pure logic.

Take wheat again as an example: It contains a good store of starch – the carbohydrates we use for energy – as well as the B-vitamins, minerals, protein, fat and fibre we need to efficiently absorb and use that energy.

Strip away the bran & the germ to make pretty white flour and you’re left with straight starch – the “bad” carbs you are trying so hard to avoid these days. The impact of straight, refined starch (sugar) on weight, blood sugar levels and hormone balance is well-documented.

The commercial benefit of white flour is that it won’t go rancid because they’ve taken out the (good) fats. If you ask me, though, food that doesn’t go bad is a food devoid of life. The essence, the life-energy, has been stripped from the grain (for more on this concept, see this post on Fats).

 

Whole food has vitality, it’s got the energy you crave.

The vibration produced by the living aspect of the plant is what actually feeds and helps your organism stay alive.

As time went on in the modern food era, nutritional scientists gradually realised the folly of refining grains, when pellagra and other deficiency diseases reared their heads. To their credit, they started to “enrich” the flour with synthetic or extracted forms of some of the very same vitamins & minerals they had removed in refining.

What about the stuff they don’t replace? We’re all scrambling around trying to access it in other ways…can you say omega-3 supplement?

Without going on too long about it, this herbal example beautifully illustrates my point as well: Willow bark is a traditional remedy for headaches and fever. It’s active ingredient, salicylic acid, was researched, extracted and sold in a pill: aspirin. Trouble is, aspirin wreaks havoc on the stomach. Willow bark, however, has no such side effect because it contains other substances that work symbiotically with the active acid.

 

Whole foods are part of your body’s history.

Among those of us who grew up from the late 50s through the early 90s, I’ve had many conversations around “How did we ever survive?” We of the Alpha-Bits and Chef-Boyardee, Tang and McDonald’s generations. Sure, we survived, but did we thrive? We of the chronic-diseases-like-never-before generation.

From the body’s perspective, we’ve been asking it to deal with products that don’t resemble the fare our organs evolved to recognise and digest. To that end, we lack enzymes to metabolise certain foods. In some cases like dairy, not knowing what to do with it, the body either pockets it away in our tissue (joints and breasts, in particular), or it feeds the pathogenic bacteria in our digestive tract, or the body mounts an inappropriate immune response (allergies and auto-immune disease).

How can something nourish you if you can’t even access the nutrients?

Is the long-term poor nutrition perhaps the reason why we’re all desperately loading up on superfoods and supplements – food that over-compensates for the nutritional gaps we had growing up?

 

Here’s a thought:

We were the generation raised on the standard North-American fare: processed (convenient), fast and altered food.

We’re also the generation that walks around talking about “not being enough” – not smart enough, not thin enough, not rich enough, not creative enough, not healthy enough,…

My husband calls us the searchers: perpetually looking for the purpose, the career, the diet, the guru, the man/woman that will solve all our problems…that will make us feel enough. That will make us feel whole.

Could it be that we’re feeling this way because we are, in fact, lacking in some way? That by refining away and destroying nutrients – the essence of the food we’d been eating for years (during our formative years at that) – we are indeed undernourished? Lacking in a way that goes much deeper that the nutrient itself?

 

The solution? Eat whole food.

Eat colour – this is where the plant world stocks up all those antioxidants, the immune system of the plant. Convenience: buy the items pre-cut.

Eat fresh – avoid anything without a best before date, or anything that doesn’t expire until next year. Convenience: frozen vegetables; canned beans or fish (rinse them well to reduce the salt)

Eat what your grandmother cooked. As a bonus prepare it the way she did. (The true bonus is the way she enriched all her meals with love.)

 

Now it’s your turn: Do you feel your body’s been deprived from eating less-than-optimal food? What do you do to make up the difference? When you share in the comments, you open the possibilities for others.

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